Someone's angry... And it's not me this time!
I just want to say for the record, I am not a needy girlfriend. I've never been a needy girl, I have friends who can confirm this. And just because I've always wanted to go to Screamers with a boyfriend, doesn't mean I'm a needy person all together.
I've gotten a ride to work once when my cash training shift started at the same time the ttc opened & the other time I asked, they wanted to sleep, so I let them and went to work late. A needy woman would make them get up and and drive them. Moreover, a needy woman would want that person to drive them everyday.
I have never once ask to be picked up from work. Why would I ever do that in my right mind. I've never ask for anyone to come and study with me at York, ever. In fact, I go to Ryerson ALL THE TIME. .
Even leaving Ryerson, I don't have a needy step what so ever when I voluntarily choose to walk him 3/4 of the way home at 12am (with the fact that I'm currently in an extreme mode of social paranoia), JUST because I want to make sure other people are safe. A needy girl would want HIM to drop her at Dundas station all the time.
A needy girl wants him to always tell her she's pretty, I don't need this, nor have I ever asked for it. At the closest, I merely ask if you liked my outfit, and for the most part, I always forget to ask. A needy girl wants you to buy them things, because they need to tell everyone that their boyfriend bought it for them.
A needy girl needs you to make sure you always proclaim to the world that you are theirs and wants you to go through stupid public displays of affection rituals because she likes it.
A needy girl always wants her man to go down on her only and never wants to make the effort to go down on him because it's annoying. I am CERTAINLY not like that. Once again, moreover, she's always lying down and wants you to do missionary. She always wants a massage, and she always wants you to initiate everything. That's needy.
To tell me that I'm a needy person, goes against me as a person. I have always done my best to make my best effort to go out of my way for others, and to tell me that wanting to go to Screamers with my boyfriend because I always saw girls with their boyfriends and wanted that too, and to tell me that wanting to have someone remember an anniversary, and wanting to have that person verbally express how special you are to them every once in a while, and wanting to celebrate holidays, and wanting to go out with that person once in a while -- if those things are needy, then I've been living a lie all my life, because I thought that everyone thought those things were small.
