I really only want the best for the people I care about.
That underlining understanding and acceptance that we are adults, that we can make our own choices is so prevalent, but I still don't want to see someone I care about misguide themselves.
I grant whatever anyone does in their own monogamous relationship to their own order, however, when certain actions are carried out for the wrong reasons, that becomes an issue with me.
The truth is, if you haven't met the man's family, you're nothing to him. You won't be remembered as his first girlfriend, the one he made love to for the first time, but rather, that girl he lost his virginity to.
My concern lays in the lack of truthful reasoning behind the actions. Like I've said countless times, a virgin doesn't all of a sudden feel the need to have a dick penetrating her vaginal walls.
I'm completely aware and respect what comes with being in a relationship, sex being one of them. I'm disappointed in the motives behind the actions. I thought you would have more self-respect rather than just rush into things because they've all of a sudden started calling you more.
I sincerely hope this brings you closer. I remember your words... look how differently your actions spoke.
